I am very confident that he is not with THE OW. So if he is with someone it is a new person.
There is some possibilty that he is telling me the truth. But I am very cautious about that. There is a possibility that he is coming out of his depression and wants to do more things. I am just thinking out loud now.
How can I know that he went for a walk and now is at Wal-mart like he is telling me. Sure if he bought somethign at Wal-mart I can see the item and the receipt. But what if he says, "They didn't have what I was looking for" or "It cost more than I thought." Then I will have no way of knowing if he was at Wal-mart or with some woman. He does tell me where he is going to be and stuff like that. At least 90% of the time. I appreciate that from him, but I need more.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08