Drowning after 23 years!

[CBK]

Have been reading Marshall's book, "I love you, but I don't really love you" - good book. It is amazing the case studies sound just like me and W... How do you get WW to read stuff, especially on infidelity? I know she wouldn't read it if I gave it to her... I thought about putting it in an evelope with her name and a note inside saying something like "we know and have been there - this book will help" and leave it on the front door when I am out of town... Thoughts?

Also, W is planning on going to a concert on Mother's day with D20, her mom and MIL! What does that mean? Nothing, a lot, baby step, trying to get MIL on her side (which will never happen). So many mixed messages.

Dying to call her as I am on a business trip, but I can make it a couple of days -