Girl... Puppy Dog visited your thread! You ARE getting strong (Puppy Dog is very good at 'kudos' when DB'ing with a backbone is accomplished).
Sorry about H's behavior, but I love how you reacted to it. You stood strong, removed yourself, and the next day, went about the business of being Sue and Mom Of Precious D4. I love it! I am very proud!
You did the right thing by turning H's ml offer down. Sober? Maybe. But drinking? He doesn't deserve you.