I just wonder what it is that these people expect from marriage? My H tells me that he loves me, respects me, thinks I'm a wonderful person, that I'm an excellent mother, a good spouse and that we have a great physical attraction to each other. What else can you ask for? IMO, it's something inside of him that's broken and can be fixed. Fixed with me, with our family intact, without the hurt to the rest of us. But maybe I'm off here and he actually can't be happy with me instead of my view of him not letting himself be happy with me.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.