Well, Kimmie, i think that she is waiting for the D Fairy to come and give her the magic cure. That pretty much just sums it up. She has no visible doubts or worries considering her decision to file. She is continually telling me if we get into a discussion that she is happy and free for the first time in a long time. I think that she honestly believes that Marriage should be easy and require no work. Who knows? I am not waiting for her to feel bad about the whole thing. I am not even sure that is possible or will happen. The W tends to be fairly stubborn. This is a major hurdle for me in trying to show her anything.
jandn, 3 tickets?? Wow. That is nuts. It sounds as if the W is trying to convince herself that she can still party and everything like she used to do. Maybe drowning her sorrows? I would keep an eye on her drinking though. Too much can be a really bad thing. Especially the driving portion of it. don't be too overdemanding, but caution her.
Ken Me: 37 Her: 38 Son: 8 (spina bifida) Son:2 M 6/24/1994 S 1/21/2008 Original Sitch