Are you willing to give up your lover and take a good "time out" for yourself to think?
Sometimes in the midst of the "bomb" and the anxiety and the stress we make bad choices for ourselves.
We have all made bad decisions, and we all acted badly in the begining of this mess.
We need to get back to basics and try and figure things out for our own lives without finding something to distract us, it's the only way that we can become grounded again.
What goals have you made for yourself?
What changes have you made for yourself?
What are some of the things you have wanted to do for yourself but kept putting off for years?
If you can use this Separation for something positive you can become someone that you can be very proud of.
Nobody is telling you that you are an evil harlot, it is just that many of us have walked this path before and we can see the train wreck.
(((((((hugs)))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
