"He has been told by me in the last couple weeks that all this nonsense can stop if he comes home and that all I want is for my family unit of 4 together again."

#1.. He hates to hear you talk. It is so over the top with "Queen B" that he has a switch. He is going to say the exact opposite of what he thinks you want to hear. Go to Vegas. Put some money on that. I saw that from way over here.

" I almost believe that he is so shamed and guilty for what he has done to me that he would much rather see me happy with someone else that won't do to me what he did and is hoping that is this current person."

Ummm... No. You got this wrong. Guilt is there, it does not have the impact you think. I am a guy.. I think with my "little one". He is coming at you with proving he is better. That is the appeal. I told you long ago.. He was going to come at you. You learned nothing. Logic will bite you. As logical as you say you are.. you have alot of Emotion in you. Emotion has the lead here. It is as apparent as me showing my "Drama Queen".

Taking a break.. Got more for you to ignore coming.


Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.