I am getting a little nervous about my H. Maybe I shouldn't be? He has been friendlier to me the last 2 weeks, spending a lot of time with D8 while S14 & I were at the theatre. He is wearing the cross with the serenity prayer (started wearing that about 2 weeks ago). H seems to definitely be reconnecting with the kids who he had stopped being much involved with the past year and making real effort to spend time with them.

H just emailed me that he was going to come visit the kids Tues and Wednesday. Yesterday he said he would come one of the nights but now wants to do both. He also said he wants to take the kids for a 1st sleepover Sat. night & take them to our old church Sunday which is near where they will be staying (church and apt. are in the same town) and I am assuming this is at his friend's house where he stores some of his stuff & not the OW's. I am nervous what all this means & not thrilled about letting the kids have a sleepover, but realize this could be positive changes so I'm wondering what others think about this stuff? Does anyone have any ideas about all this? Karen


Last edited by karen43; 04/21/08 11:39 PM.

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