I have been to see a L as well, on the advice of my dad, who is also a L. My dad sent me to see a L just so I would have a realistic idea of what I can expect under the law. I am not ready to file for D either, but I have a much clearer understanding of what the process will be if that is the way things end up. It was scary to walk in there and hear what he had to say, but I'm not the least bit afraid now, because I will have no surprises. So just because you call one or even go to a consultation, no one but you can get the ball rolling. Nothing is final until its final....
Keep taking care of you and I think going dark is a great idea. I'm not sure if he is in contact with OW again or not, but you need to let him know what you need from him to make you feel more secure with the situation.
Hugs ((((SARA))))
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
