Hello Mr. MLC part quatro...

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Pity not asked for nor wanted by you. WOW...all I can do is laugh hysterically at this one. The last time I looked you weren't GOD therefore have no right to judge me and who I am.
-------->I can not judge you as a person, but I can when you air your laundry judge what your actions are. And your actions are horrible.



Sweetheart you are here on DB for some reason also. Maybe your marriage isn't the best because of you too.
------->I've totally admitted my mistakes. Instead of continuing them, I chose to stop them. If you would like to know more- you can read my thread.

None of us are perfect but let's not get into this hollier than thou BS with me. It isn't a pissing contest!
-------->This isn't about being holier than thou. This is about saving a marriage and saving a marriage can NOT be done until you find out why you are so co-dependant and are having an affair.

Again, don't like what I am doing then post elsewhere with someone whom your methods can infact bully into submission.
-------->This is a public forum. I will continue to post simply becuase anyone knew here should know that your actions are NOT practices accepted by DB nor the moderators NOR the coachs of DBing.


Oh and yes, in therapy and yes, have done the DB coaching. Can't say I got my monies worth with either necessarily. Maybe this is really just who I am. Not like you and not like many others here.
--------->If you tried therapy and you didn't like it it's because of 2 things. 1) the therapist was bad and you needed to seek another one or 2) the therapist also agrees your actions are not acceptable and you didn't like the answer so you stopped.



And don't you dare suggest that what I am doing will have a negative effect on my children. They are being sheltered from this as much as humanly possible. They do not know this man exists, have never met him, and won't for a very long time if ever. Sure they may figure things out on their own in time but not because I am subjecting them to any of it like some 400 lb. crack whore that doesn't give a damn because my tax dollars are paying for her to have multiple kids with multiple men.
-------->Why do you feel I am comparing you to a crack whore? I went back and that was not even part of any equation. Your children will know. Trust me. One day, this will come back to bite you. Maybe not today, but in the future- after your divorced and the two of you (mom/dad) are bitter- One will spill the beans and the children will find out. Seen it way to many times. You don't/won't believe me now.. but 10 years from now.. you will be saying "damn, that biotch RWS was right".

Did you ever stop and think maybe my H is just a schmuck and didn't want the responsibility of a M and kids anymore and didn't want out due to problems WE caused or didn't cause?
-------->huh? What does this have to do with you having an affair? His actions should not control your destiny or your behavior.

Save your lectures and GAL stuff for your clients not me.
---------->I realize you don't want my advice, but I will continue to post as I said partly because new comers need to know that your behavior is not acceptable practice of DBing.