Hope, your sitch sounds similar to mine. In January my H told me he had to separate. We got an apartment and we share it and the house. Basically whomever has the kids stays in the house. We have the most odd separation ever. We eat dinner together as a family most nights, spend lots of time together as a family, but really don't spend any time together alone. My H is very confused and doesn't know what he wants.

If you're interested, here are my threads:
Solution Journal JenInVen/CW68 #1
Solution Journals JenInVen/CW68 #2

#1 Did I find DB too late?
Too late? #2
Too late? #3
Too late? #4


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.