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OK, what that hell do I do here? What do I say? How do I tell her I'm not ready to rush back into this without hurting her feelings?


Well.

She didn't say anything about wanting to get back together, right?

She is missing some stuff. I think they all pretty much do that.

I think you just be honest with her as things come up.

I mean if you want to be her shoulder, then so be it.

She may just be feeling the loss of it all, and not know how to process things.

But for you to know that she is meaning something more, that will take time.

And i think, that as long as you are totally honest with her, and yourself.

you are good to go

I don't really see that you have to approach anything.

Let her come to you like she has been doing. Things are on your terms now sweetie.

I know all this stuff sort of ruffles the feathers. Like UGH not now, My life is good.

sheesh.

You are a wonderful dad, and that presence is missed around the house.

Yeah, she should of noticed it 2 years ago, but who knows why they get so bat shitte crazy.






Last edited by Lissie; 04/21/08 09:48 PM.

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