Pity not asked for nor wanted by you. WOW...all I can do is laugh hysterically at this one. The last time I looked you weren't GOD therefore have no right to judge me and who I am.

Sweetheart you are here on DB for some reason also. Maybe your marriage isn't the best because of you too. None of us are perfect but let's not get into this hollier than thou BS with me. It isn't a pissing contest!

Again, don't like what I am doing then post elsewhere with someone whom your methods can infact bully into submission.

Oh and yes, in therapy and yes, have done the DB coaching. Can't say I got my monies worth with either necessarily. Maybe this is really just who I am. Not like you and not like many others here.

And don't you dare suggest that what I am doing will have a negative effect on my children. They are being sheltered from this as much as humanly possible. They do not know this man exists, have never met him, and won't for a very long time if ever. Sure they may figure things out on their own in time but not because I am subjecting them to any of it like some 400 lb. crack whore that doesn't give a damn because my tax dollars are paying for her to have multiple kids with multiple men.

Did you ever stop and think maybe my H is just a schmuck and didn't want the responsibility of a M and kids anymore and didn't want out due to problems WE caused or didn't cause?

Save your lectures and GAL stuff for your clients not me.


Both 35
T 19/M 15 years
S8/D5
It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07

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