I do not see her being able to keep this house unless her dad walks in and gives her a loan to buy it..If this is over I have to walk away with something. I can't just turn my back and get nothing..
Mike, I know the feeling, in NC everything is split 50/50. My W is still in our house, I am making the payment on it. I don't see there be any way her being able to get a loan for it in her name if she decides to keep it. As of now, she doesn't know if she wants to keep it or sell it. Someone will have to step in to help her keep it.
The house has somewhat helped me keep some sanity on this sitch as I know she knows she won't be able to afford it unless she gets enough from me in child support and alimony, even then she will have a hard time financing it. With her not making any moves whatsoever on buying me out or selling it just gives me hope that maybe she is looking for the changes to take me back in. I'm sure that I am just reading things into this but we have been seperated for 5 months now, wouldn't and nothing has happened on either side as far as splitting things such as bank accounts, retirement and the house. She could be just waiting until the last month to hit me with all of this stuff but who knows. From about month 2 up until about 2 weeks ago I would push my W to make her decision and let's get the house on the market. I know this was not a good thing I was doing as I'm sure it was pushing her away. I am going to lay off of that right now and not bring it up anymore. My lease runs out on my place in September so I have a few months to see what happens.
