You are right. Really, it does NOT matter what the exW's family and friends think. That is simply NOT important. The most important aspect of all of this is we remain men of character. This speaks volumes to all of those who encounter us. This will eventually get to those who have heard the lies from our exWs. In the end, the truth will be seen. When they reflect on the men we REALLY are, I feel that the exWs will look back with regret.....
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"