TY for responses, every response is appreciated and i try and digest it all and take it on board and link it to my sitch.

I find it odd that you all are so convinced there is an affair. Honestly, there is little time for W to be doing that except for nights out which are about fortnightly. I may be being to gullible here and maybe there is an EA, through texts or e-mails, but i don't know.

So what do people do when it comes toan anniversary or WAW birthday ? my friend i spoke to suggested a card for anniversary and something simple. What you think ?