I just thought I would drop by to offer a few words of encouragement as someone who has had to face down the anger of a WAW.
Remember the anger that you are seeing from W is all about demonising you to help her justify in her mind that what she is doing (most likely an A) is right. The more she can make you look like the bad guy the easier it is for her to continue the A. If you face up to the anger and if she is anything like my W it will intensify to unbelievable proportions, so buckle down for a bumpy ride.
Originally Posted By: Arthur
She has started going OTT with swearing in front of the children and this morning I just calmly said 'Could you please not keep swearing in front of the children, it's not right and you are doing loads of late' and left it. There was no response, which I think usually there would be.
Keep this as your consistant reaction cos believe me she may get worse.
Originally Posted By: Arthur
Maybe the new me has installed some doubt and guilt in her, I don't know.
I would say say definitely yes
Originally Posted By: Arthur
Anyway, as always, I'm not holding out too much hope for us, but I am confident about me. Fix me and hopefully wife will come back to me.
Don't give up, stay the confident new you, I was back in your exact situation last October but I manged to turn things around, with a lot of hard work and patience you can do the same , Keep going Arthur.
