Well, first, going to talk to a L does not actually mean you have to go through with it. Second, letting your H know you are talking to a L may be a huge wake-up call for him. Third, you should know your rights and options.
Feel the fear and do it anyways if it's what you decide is right for you. Don't let your fear dictate your actions.
(((Sara)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2