Sues,
First of all I'm sending big hugs to you and DD4.

I totally agree with Rob. Adultery is a huge issue with him, but I think the root of his problems begin with his drinking.

All you can do right now is exactly what you have been doing, being a wonderful mother and person.

Hugs, Yoyo



Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon