Star,
Is MO a no fault divorce state? If not, then you can get him on adultery. Who knows you may even be able to do this anyway. See about getting a free consultation with a lawyer and seeing what your options are to get him out of the house.

I think sometimes a wake up/reality call is exactly what they need to see that they can't continue to cake eat. Believe me I don't say this pointing fingers. I let my H cake eat for several months, you could probably say he even visited the buffet several times. I finally stood up to him and things are much better between us.

Hugs, Yoyo




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