Ann, Good you two are communicating even if unpleasant. Perhaps encourage him (maybe insist) on something healthy/regular/routine for stress relief? Yoga, jogging, ... I think if you want change its more likely to happen with encouragement than criticism. Seems like he responded positively instead of denial and withdrawal. Seems like you are very stressed too. My heart goes out to you. Take care.
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