So do you think I need to go a lawyer and start legal seperation? The courts saying that he has to leave is going to be the only way he can leave. I have looked into this a LOT and because his name is on the mortage along with mine, I have no legal right what so ever to make him leave. He can get the police to arrest me if I wont' let him in and allow him in the house. The only way I could get around it is if I lie and say that he is physically abusing me. He isn't. I am going to try this going dark on him for at least 5 days or so and see what happens. If that is a cheeseless tunnel, then I will go the next route.


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08