why are you the one leaving? that doestn' seem fair. Does that affect you financially? it shouldn't, if he wants space then he can leave.
If things dont' work out and if they get ugly you can get blamed for abandoning the home (maybe it is just me being neurotic since most of the LBS and WAS on this board dont worry about that, perhaps it is only my distrustful stbx)
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.