I have to concur with Puppy. I know it is tough, but I will say it again, she has a minivan worth of baggage. Until she commits to cleaning up the booze and spends some time working through the vast array of emotinal issues, I would have to say Hasta LaVista Baby. At least for a while! She is a mess and way too much drama for a 2 year relationship.

I know it means alot to you and I don't mean to minimize it but gosh darn, until she gets some help it isn't going to get any better. Spare yourself the pain down the road.

Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!