Well NA, if this is going to work, maybe you should talk with him about the fact that unless you both talk open and honestly how you are feeling about issues that your R won't work. That involves painful things, things that you aren't going to repress just to have him back.
Up to you.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
