Knowing that keeping yourself busy helps you will make the days easier. It does get easier. For the first few weeks after my H left, I'd be sitting alone reading, watching TV or on the computer thinking, "This stinks. It's so lonely. I really miss him." Now it's just how my nights are and I'm not quite so lonely. I still miss him, but it's like a slight ache instead of a sharp pain.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.