He left again after five weeks........

[ACJ]

Patti

i guess in a way i dont feel there is that much collateral damage (kids) to my situation. Just me while i figure out what to do.

You need to hold yourself in higher esteem than that.

but i will stop posting if you thinks its the pot calling the kettle black

I don't think that at all. I just found it interesting that you gave different advice to the path you have currently chosen to take.