[/quote]Did he say this TO your H? Isn't it nice when other people validate your feelings? It doesn't make the problem go away, but it should confirm that it's him, not YOU![quote]
N, Mat he didn't say ti to H just me. I wish he had though Yes it does validate my feelings and confirm the fact that it's him and not me.
Journaling:
SIL that is the health care proxy has been out of town and not reachable most of the time. I think it's time to add someone else to the proxy that is more available since SIL would still rather travel even now when she might be needed. So im'e taking steps for that to happen and don't care what SIL thinks as we need to think about their Mom right now. This also happened with their Dad right at a crucial time before he died, so I am not willing to let it happen again.
H seems ok for the most part but nothing is written in stone yet so we are waiting to hear on the Biopsy results so that we can have a formal diagnosis.
Just trying to stay far enough in distance while helping take care of things too ad I am the most available.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
