I made the mistake of crying to H too much also and let me tell you it doesn't give you the reaction your looking for. Instead of empathy we get pity, instead of a hug we get the dreaded look in their eyes. Nothing we say to them will make them want to be with us. In my sitch I thought I might have had a chance in the early weeks but now after my backsliding its a long shot right now that he's coming home soon if at all.
Good luck with the darkness. I hope he soon sees the light.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
