I was talking about this with my C kind of, my sitch of course not yours, but my H being unreliable and not completely trustworthy. She was suggesting I really need to have a support system of friends to help out when H doesn't come through. I am also trying to get as independent as I can so I don't have to ask H to come through for me very often. Plus, the C said like have AAA so when the car breaks down I don't have to call my H.
I am trying to work on all this! I am going to try to ask H for as little help I can and then just be pleasantly surprised with whatever he does. It does seem like the less I expect of him, the more he is giving out to the kids and I which is weird, but I am glad he is being pretty good lately now that I don't expect much anymore! Karen
Karen