I had a bad couple of days over the weekend- I started to feel just like I used to last year, like I've been doing everything, resentful toward h and yesterday I had to tell him. Of course, it all came out wrong- or he took it wrong. I didn't feel this way so much when he was gone b/c if he was gone then I knew I only had myself to rely on. When he's here and not doing what I need him to do, then I get resentful and mad.

Things seem better today.

I know I should be happy that he's working on being back with me. There are small things that have been getting to me (and some big things too). I'm having a hard time figuring out when I should say something to him and when I should let it go. Per DR, I know I'm supposed to "ask for what I want", but how do I do that without sounding like an ungrateful nag?


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08