Well it's been some time since I last posted - almost two months. I read up on everyone I can - most days but have been more lurking than anything.
Things are going great for H and I despite the fact he is coaching OW's son in flag football. Talk about avoiding someone at the game (and there are ONLY 9 kids on our team). I have started talking with her XH since we were pretty close pre-A. He is doing well but struggling $$$wise since he gave her double the CS he was required to. Now they are back at court - he wants it reduced obviously she doesn't. She had the gall to email me last week asking me NOT to communicate things to her X in regards to her son, b/c I had sent the game schedule to the man since he has the boys 3 out of 4 weekends and she did not share the schedule with him!!!! Well like I owe her ANYTHING!!!!!!!! Boy she sure has nerve!!! If I get another email I may let her have it - though I have always taken the high road and it has worked for me so far!!
H and I have had some conflicts but he is learning to stand up to me and how to "fight fair" and I am learning that he will not bail at the first sight of a fight...We are re-learning how to make the M a priority and we are having fun with our kids...BUSY but fun!
It's hard to put this all past me - (since the skank OW cannot let me be) but each day does get better and better. We don't seem to talk about the A as much as we did three mos. ago!
Have a great week and thanks for reading!!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
