Refuse To Lose, Part VII

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Kerry - The lies hurt. They really do. It is so obvious to me that she is doing this to justify her involvement w/ OM. I'm pretty sure they're talking about their long-term futures together. In fact, D said today, "This isn't our permanent house. We'll be using the movers again soon for another apartment." I wonder if that means w/ OM. I can only hope not.

I think the one that hurt the most was from my MIL who responded to something sent from W and saying how proud she was of her for leaving me. MIL also sent another e-mail about anger and control and said "I read this and is summed up everything you said about (me)." It really hurt to read those words from her as I didn't have a close relationship w/ my mother, but I really enjoyed her and she looked at me as a son. I think it depressed me as well to think, how in the world can W ever recover from this? Is it possible?

RTL,

You bring up one very interesting topic. In my case, my "Christian" exWAW bailed after two "counseling" sessions... All she really said is she wanted out of M..... Then, she spewed numerous lies about me to her friends, coworkers and family...... Conveniently, she "met" a guy at work.....

All of this speaks VOLUMES about her character or rather lack of it..... Instead of at least being a somewhat mature adult and owning up to the truth, she had to drag me through the mud to make me look bad....... Her dumb a$$ "Christian" sister sent her flowers for her birthday with a card reading "I am proud you are my sister." I guess in her sister's Bible adultery and divorce are something acceptable.....

The really disappointing thing is the lack of insight these people have..... I would IMMEDIATELY suspect something if someone told me they were having problems in their M and shortly thereafter they "meet" someone....... I would HAVE to take them to task and ask if they were involved with this person earlier....

RMG