Okay, so maybe I'm pushing it a bit, but it's a good day so far! I've had far to many sad Mondays over the past year that I think a good one is deserved!!
Journaling......... Friday - Picked D4 up from school and did some shopping. Found a ton of bargins. Since she's still little, I can still easily shop for next season. I got about $130 worth of clothes for about $26. Whew!
Anyway....H went to a concert on Friday night. I'd talked to him just before leaving work on Friday. He was in a good mood. He called us twice from the concert. The first time was okay. I talked to him for just a second & then handed the phone off to D4. The second time he called was at about 11:00 pm. He was drunk. He was babbling about how D4 & I should get some rest because he was heading to Chicago in the morning so he could see the same band with his brother on Sat. night in Chicago. He said if we wanted to go with we could. H got home late. He was drunk & came into the bedroom, expecting me to be willing to have sex. I told him no. He started in on me telling me that me denying him was why we were in the situation we're in now. He then told me that I'd probably never find anyone else. He told me that he should set me up with OW's H, as we're perfect for each other. And then, he mumbled something about....after all he's done for me. WTH??? I got up and slept on the couch.
Saturday........ H was still 1/2 in the bag & came out into the living room. He asked why I was sleeping on the couch. I told him it was because when he came home on Fri. night he laid into me and said some nasty things. I told him that I didn't want to listen to them so I left the room. Twice more he came out into the living room & tried to get me to come into the bedroom. I told him no. After D4 got up, I got off the couch & got ready for the day. H was also getting up. I'd told H on Friday that I was going to go get the oil changed & my wipers replaced on Sat. H came out and very humbly asked if I'd want to go to Wal-Mart to get it done & then he'd do all his grocery shopping there too. I told him that it didn't matter to me. He commented that it didn't seem as if I wanted him to go with me. I told him again....I don't care. I'm going to get my stuff done and if you want to go, I'm leaving in 10 minutes. H was very, very nice the rest of the day....to the point of wanting to make dinner for all of us, wanting us to sit at the table together, helping D4 and I with a puzzle....etc. You know, I don't have a problem with giving D4 some quality "family" time. In fact, part of me would like to still be able to give her that after H and I split. However, I don't like being blamed and degraded and then having H scrambling back for that "family" time.
Sunday..... H asked if D4 and I would like to go to breakfast. Again, I did it for D4. I think it's unfair for her not to have that. Our M problems are not her fault. We did a quick breakfast and then D4 and I were off to the baseball game. We had a great time. It was so fun. H was a little crabby when we got home, but we just did our own thing.....laundry, bath, a project for D4 for school....etc.
Busy day here at work. I need to get going.
Thanks & have a great day!
Sues
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
