You are the only one who gets to decide how to make it through this situation with your husband. I have always been impressed with your patience during this mess.
I really don't think anyone is suggesting that you divorce your husband. I know that I am not. For while I am divorced myself, I still consider marriage vows a sacred thing, not something to be let go easily.
My concern for you before was the effect of your husbands continued interaction with his other woman while living with you. I believe that this is wrong and should not be tolerated. I believe, as Michelle herself states in a posting on the infidelity thread, that the wandering spouse must do everything in his/her power to assure and prove to their spouse that they are remorseful and have broken all contact with their adulterous partner. Period.
The most important thing right now is that YOU find a way to have peace for you and your children. Your husband must find a way to take care of himself.
Wishing you peace.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
