no not moving just get together....i think family christian C would help bind you for a common cause. you seem in such disaray your h's coming and goings and drinking isnt good for your children. your D is very angry and your s well he just may end up emulating his dad.

Allison,
I know Im not, I really am at a quandry of how to deal with him now. i guess in a way i dont feel there is that much collateral damage (kids) to my situation. Just me while i figure out what to do.
I thought I did everything right when he came home....i forgave him, i didnt pressure him...i tried to do all the things to make our M a better working one. it didnt work because hes still MLC. I hadnt figured that because he was so normal acting. but i will stop posting if you thinks its the pot calling the kettle black

Last edited by a new 2moro; 04/21/08 03:13 PM.

Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest