I love the imagery about the arm! I am definitely going to be using that for myself. That is such a great description of it.
I feel like I have lost myself in this too. It is SO frustrating because I know in my head that H is turned off by the desperate needy person I have become. The frustration is because HE MADE ME THAT WAY!! I was never like this before. He has been so withholding of his affections over the years that my self esteem is at an all time low. I have to get back to what I once was. That is what I am trying to focus on while I go dark.
