Where do...I...go from here?

[tpaschal]

Stillinlove,

2 posts. Is that all? Tell us who you really are.

IMP

IMP,

Does it matter?

I found the boards about a year ago, after reading DR, but I've only been around regularly for about 2 months now. So while I've read a lot, I don't know all the players, the histories, or the politics. And while I have my own opinions on some of the things that have happened recently, I've kept them to myself because that's not the reason I'm here.

I thought the purpose of this board was to seek, receive, and give help to and from others who have gone through, or are currently going through a mid-life-crisis situation in their own real lives. To get and give advice on how to save a marriage when MLC is a factor, and failing that, to help the LBS move forward with life.

THAT is why I am here.

So if someone has something constructive or helpful to offer me, or if they can just commiserate with me so I know I'm not alone in this, I welcome it, no matter who they are.

If you have some helpful or construtive advice to give me, or even some of the bluntly worded 2x4's that I've read from you on others' threads, I welcome that.

If you do not have anything to offer that pertains to my sitch, then I would prefer not to become embroiled in board politics.

I have prayed to God in praise and thankfulness for the existence of this board and for leading me here. I believe that God has lead me here for a purpose---to give me support and guidance, and to show me that there IS a plan and hope for my future, whether H ever returns or not. So if a post helps give me that support and guidance, if it helps me find that hope, then I honestly don't care who it's from.

Thanks for stopping by.

Sincerely,
TPaschal