YR s H did seek out C to help him self back......your H is self medicating in OW and alcohol with no desire to work on himself. In fact hes still blaming you. he just turned on you after hed been home those few weeks. made it all your fault. Just like my stitch...I dont know...I just think you should rally up your family and move on. Let him catch up when hes ready.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest