Here's the thing:

with MLC they can leave many times and we are all aware of that.

remember yellowrose? her H left several times and now they have put their marriage back on track and it is better then ever.

also what many fail to realize is that (if you are a christian) the enemy is on the attack breaking or attempting to break families apart.

divorce is the easy way out. god is putting us thru this for a reason.

i do agree with holly with regard to being still instead of meddling.

h has some work left to do and it is not about OW at all, it is about him and his problems.

the consensus is that it is best for h to be away to work out his problems then to have him at home at this point in time.

Last edited by steelersfan; 04/21/08 02:10 PM.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19