Thank Naej,
I know I need to follow through on this despite how awful I feel about it.

H related to me last night that when he picked S15 up from the nightclub the other night S15 said to him 'Dad do you realise that all my friends think I am cock of the tree and you just spoiled it!' It just shows that S15 knows exactly what he is doing. H tried to point out to him (both last night and on Thursday) that it is wrong for him to have this impression of himself for two reasons. Firstly it is only his opinion of what his friends think and secondly real life isn't like that, there is always someone bigger and better than you.

I am confident that I have done the right thing. whether the timing is right with his pubic exams literally weeks away I am not sure. I don't think the environment he is currently helping to create is good for him to study in but then I don't want any rejection he feels to overtake his desire to do well. (I'm suffering very badly from that myself right now and also have assignment deadlines looming)


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15