Umm, I am speechless at the above advice! Where to start. Firstly, it would be stupid to leave your home without a SA in place, it can put your access to the kids at risk, talk to your lawyer rather than listen to Fish. Secondly, I cannot fathom what could possibly be gained by "breaking" the woman who will be mothering your children. Is a war really what you want? How would such a strategy effect your kids? Again, idiotic advice. If separation is in the cards then try to do so in as above board a fashion as you can. More depends on your choices than the momentary thrill of petty vengeance. Grow up Fish!
