The girls and I are okay. Had a long talk with S17 and he does not like me at all these days. Said he does not trust me at all--I told his dad something about him which I felt was very important for him to know and possibly deal with which was part of S17's trust issue.
I told S17 what I would like to see him do and of course he rebels and blames me for all of the problems. Funny thing is that H and I never fought, were always very loving but I was supposed be a trooper and not show emotion when all of this started????
H told S that D16 sent him a nasty text--all she really did was say that she wants nothing to do with him until he changes his heart. I think he is seeking sympathy from S but I could be wrong.
S told me yesterday that his dad admitted how miserable he is but again, I cannot do a thing about that.
Right now I am just sick of people telling me I should file for divorce. They do not share my beliefs.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
