Asserting your rights does not = "all out war" It means stating what you want in a respectful way. Don't let her drag you down.
Bail on the mediation if you do not feel that they are mediating impartially. The idea behind mediation is impartiality.
Don't quit Dbing. Yes it did not help you marriage, or mine for that matter, but I know it helped me as a person and I am willing to bet Theo's collection of LOTR dolls that it helped you as well.
Bottom line is you need to stand tall and strong. If 50-50 is what you want then go after it. Do not let her hatred sway you. You can do this......you know that you can.....
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
