I think she's back

[Starshyne]

H came home at 9pm and had a whole story about where he was all day. First he had to work until 3 instead of 1:30, then he went to work out (ummm...all of his workout stuff was here at the house) then he got something to eat and went to see a movie alone. He is so admament that there is no other woman. He almost had me convienced until I said, "where are the flower?" And he said "there are no flowers, they are gone." And I asked "where did they go?" He said, "they went no where." I could see that this conversation was also going no where and I said, "I didn't know you were a magician."

Starting today I am ending contact with him. Until he can prove to me that there is no affair and he is starting to take those steps towards a marriage, I am not going to do anything with him. No more meals together, no more watching TV together, no more conversations, etc.

I know everyone says how I need to get him out of the house. I have tried and the man won't leave! So this just seems to be the next best thing at the moment. I hope it is a wake up to him that I am sick of his games and I am not going to live like this again.

Sara