1. Move out of the house ASAP. 2. After moving out of the house - "go dark for at least 1 month." 3. Stop paying all bills. 4. Instruct your lawyer that your objective is to "BREAK" your W by any means possible. No more Mr. Nice guy, you are not the red cross, you are now at WAR. 5. Absolutely no contact with W - no text, no email, no voice.
Several weeks ago, I accepted the fact that I was divorcing my W and we are now at War. I have come at her with everything in my power. I have heard from other people that she is close to being "broken."
Attack & pull back... attack and pull back... attack and pull back. It will drive her insane.
My lawyer commented the other day... "You will not be happy until she is left naked on the street with nothing but a burlap bag."
My response.. "That's the plan. I am no longer paying you for advice. Just do what I tell you to do. We are going to F this chick up."
