Are we piecing yet?

[Lanzo]

Hi Kiwi,


In answer to your question "Are we piecing yet ?" I think the answer is yes, if you want to accept.

In a lot of cases like ours the WAW returns but doesn't want to be held accountable for their actions or the turmoil they have created, so they try to ignore, gloss over or not (immediately) discuss the facts.

See an examples
Piecing...Ostriching...Salvaging.. I don't know...
W and I piecing this M back together #2

So my advice to you would be to accept W's offer of reconciliation, but lower your expectations of having your "pound of flesh", "your day in court", or even a simple apology, because it's not going to happen as you expect. The best way forward is to forget these things until W is ready to speak, and for that to happen you will need to get the R onto firmer footing, that is where you do work.

You will need to understand that it is you who is going to be the one who has to push the reconciliation, you are going to be the one who has to spread the love all around, otherwise you will find yourself stuck in limbo (as you are now)or maybe even worse lose W again.

Piecing doesn't seem fair at first cos the onus is on you to put things right, your are going to be the one to prove your love so W will come around, but all good things will come if you are patient and prepared to try. (I'm trying it now).

Welcome to piecing.