Totally Lost after 23 years

[FaithfulH]

I agree with Addie about MC. It would be great if your W said she wants to work on the marriage....but, her stated goal is S and D...right? In reality, she DOES want to work on the M or she wouldn't be at MC with you...but, it doesn't appear to me that either of you are ready. Pro Marriage counselors are a MUST. There are MANY counselors who believe it is their job just to help you 'move on'. Remember....it was this fact that led Michelle to her work of "Busting" Divorces.

Steve is a great resource too.....I particularly like his Sabre-tooth tiger line...LOL. Seriously, you need to make your self attractive again.....and this is not going to happen through something you say.....or by obsessing over everything your W says or does. GET YOUR OWN LIFE....GAL.....FOR JUST YOU! Guess what....you'll be better for everybody around you. Read....re-read...and re-read again....the Detach website.

Hi-ho, hi-ho....off to work I go!