My husband said he needed more space....

[addie]

Hi Jen,
Unfortunately some of our natural tendencies to want to discuss R, ask H to return, telling him things will be different, etc these things do not work. They have the opposite effect of what we'd like to happen. I know it's so difficult to do but do not bring up R talk. When you know you'll be seeing H, prepare yourself mentally beforehand by repeating to yourself that you'll not talk about R, you'll be friendly, act as if. Think of some other things that you may want to talk to H about - daughter, current events, new things you've done, chit chat about your day, etc. We all have backslides but you can get right back on track.