Oh Sara I am SO so sorry..I wish I could make all of the pain go away I know what it feels like and there is nothing like being lied to again and again and not being able to prove it and having them make you feel as though we're the crazy ones..I know that throwing my H out was the thing that woke him up..I just hope he doesn't falter..but you need to get tough now..enough being nice..apparantly that makes him feel it's ok to be a cake eater.Get a Lawyer and scare the S@#T out of him now..Show him that you are now going to take control..You remind me so much of myself and I how I couldn't stop crying, wondering where he was..it's now way to live and it's so unfair and just not right..Please stay strong{{{hugs}}}
Me: 36 H: 34 2 D's: 10+13 Married: 13 yrs(Together 15) Found out about A-Jan 08 Finally ended April 08..I hope?? Struggling to co-exist in peace